there are regrets and then there are Regrets.

regrets to me are those choices that i've made that have directly impacted me.  the ones i've learned from.  i regret them in the sense that they were bad choices but i don't regret how they've made me who i am.

Regrets are those choices, decisions i've made that have directly impacted someone i love dearly....my kids or husband.  i have far more re: my kiddo's than i do the husband.  being a wife is far easier than being a mom.

with that said i can't alter the past ....thus i will pray and pray some more.