Friday, April 23, 2010

you're mistaken....but thanks for nothing!

so, i made an inquiry regarding summer scheduling for camps only to get blasted with a rambling response regarding allegations! really!. I didn't respond to the individual actually just deleted her response. (ahh the power of delete) BUT it, unfortunately frustrated me. if it were directed at me so be it. also know this....you're mistaken. i alleged nothing. i did however comment what was shared with me by those you "coached*" (*term used loosely) more times than not girls expressed their disappointment with the way THEIR year was going and sadly, many times you & yours were given all the credit. any allegations were not mine but experiences of those who endured the time.

the entire experience has been based on "allegations". my dismissal was also due in part to your "allegations".

i endured comments YOU made regarding your co-coach in her absence, personal bias good/bad towards members of the team or those trying out. i didn't allegedly witness this i experienced it.

my downfall...i don't like conflict. i should've told you in the instant that i thought you were out of line. i should've been up front that part of my description of professionalism on a job was honesty...with those i worked with, coached, and their parents. if they system can't handle the honesty then perhaps the system is flawed in some way; i know i am. i give others (too often) the benefit of the doubt. you're entitled to your opinion. what you're not entitled to is chastising others for not sharing in that opinion. you want respect yet don't seem to give it. you have a lot of growing up to do, in my opinion.

you're talented and certainly had a lot to offer. but for some reason bitterness brought about from who knows what seemed to be the dominate force. the time has past & in this case a do over isn't an option. it's unfortunate.

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